Do not Impose Anal Sex

ASK:
Dear Doctor, I have been married for 3 months. My husband recently oftenmangajak me to do "anal sex". But I often refused because I was scared because it seemed to be sick once. In addition, I worry when doing "anal sex" will affect thepain that I suffered though ambein recurring nature that will show up if I amconstipated or lifting heavy loads. While I have not told my husband will ambein that I suffered in shame. My question, is it safe to do "anal sex" although I have ahemorrhoid, Doc?

ANSWER:
Sexual intercourse should be done for the common man and wife. If one party is unwilling for whatever reason, then the partner should understand and not impose its will. Likewise, when your husband wants to do anal sex, should depend also to you.If you object because they are sick or anything that you do not want, a husbandshould understand this.
Anal sex relationships can not be done without using a lubricant, because the anusdoes not experience sexual response such as the vagina. If imposed, would bothparties will feel sick. Kelecetan must occur in the anus, and also on the penis. By using a lubricant, these barriers can be reduced.
But the problem, not merely because of these barriers, but also because ofaesthetic considerations. Especially if you have hemorrhoids, of course this situation will get worse due to the friction when engaging in anal sex. So it should notbe done. I am sure your husband will understand this.